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my friend doesnt understand why i talk to my b/f so much
So me and my best friend have been having problems ever since me and my b/f have been going out (6 1/2 months) she says i talk to him way to much and since i text him sometimes when were hangout it makes her feel betrayed or not good enough. even though we're never doing anything when i text him, even though its not that much. we both really want to stop fighting but its hard cuz we both are really stuborn and believe in what we say. she has another best friend that she doesnt fight with at all so im afriad shes gonna give up on me and just stay friends wiht her. do you think im doing much wrong? what do you think about the situation?
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This is actually a good question to ask me, because I've gone through this before. I was in your friend's position, and I know where she's coming from. My best friend started going out with this guy, and we'd be hanging out, and she's text him, too.
I think she has a reason to feel a little left out if you're not spending time with her. She's feeling jealous, it's ok, it's a natural human emotion.
I think she has a reason to feel left out, but not 'betrayed' or something that severe. Maybe you shouldn't text your boyfriend when you're with her unless it's neccessary, or something like that? Or, go to the bathroom and text him, but don't do it while you're doing something with your friend. Get what I mean?
OR...
Try involving her, and making her feel as important as she seems to think your boyfriend is. Like, ask her, "What's something cute I can text to *boyfriend*?" Or, hang out with them both so you won't even HAVE to text your boyfriend! AND they'll both be spending time with you.
Good Luck!
-Laura (15-f)
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