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i just saw my ex for the first time today
i just saw my ex for the first time today since the breakupp. we broke up two weeks ago (less) and i still like him a lot. we were together 5 months. he was my first bf and kiss. we said hi and that was like it. it was prretttyyy akward. now its really feeling like its over and im so upset. i feel like hes way over me and it makes me really upset. i guess i expect a miracle to happen and for him to take me bacck today. i miss him.
1. any (preferably sad) songs describing a situation like this. like seeing him completely over me while im still attatched. i like stuff like boys like girls we the kings cartel etc. no screamo.
2. what do i do with myself. please dont say friends cause they dont get it. i dont like them very much.
3. why am i still sad. why do i still care. why do i continue to think about him every day. why cant i listen to one song without his name coming up in my head.
4. i want to be friiends with him because i couldnt ever not talk to him agian. i feel so weird talking to him. cause i had a tiny conversation with him today and i just couldnt look him in the eye. i couldnt speak knowing he doesnt feel the same.
thanks;
hopeless
i wonder what he'd think if he could read my mind..
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
1. 'You Always on My Mind'- Elvis Presley.
2. Just think to yourself about the happy times which you spent with him. Ask your parents what to do, because like all other couples, they've experianced heart break over the years. Don't be afraid of approaching them, they'll listen to you.
3. You're sad because he was your first love, your first kiss and that makes a hell of an impression on people becuase they want it to last. You care for him because you've still got feelings for him and you want him back. It's perfetly natural to feel that way. Words in songs can sometimes play a small 'video' in our minds which will some how will relate to what we're thinking about the most, no matter how weird the song is.
4. Don't be afraid, you still have feelings for him, i understand that. He may not have the same. Ask whether he still has feelings for you, if not, ask whether you can still be friends.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Konstantine by Something Corporate
I miss you by Blink182
I miss you by The Summer Obsession
Those are some sad songs :] but I think you should just give your heart some time to heal and try not to think about him or write and draw all of your feelings out on paper.
You are still sad because you miss him and you had a relationship for 5 months, which is a long time. You also think about him everyday because you aren't over him just yet, but one day you will be. And when you listen to songs and his name pops up in your head it means that he's always on your mind and you need to start TRYING to get over him, it won't happen right away but you just have to try to think of someone else.
I know that you want to be friends with him right now, but maybe you should just give yourself some time, some space and see what happens with your relationship, the friendship one, and go from there. GIve him and yourself some time...because that's what you need. Things will become less awkward sooner or later, just be patient.
Hope I helped and feel better, you're not hopeless :]
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Ahh, the unfortunate sounds of broken heartedness. It's not fun, believe me. I remember all to well trying to get over a broken heart, that seems will never heal. It does though. In time. I know that doesn't help for the right now, but just remember, every day, every minute, someone is suffering from a broken heart as well. Maybe this will be something to remember to keep you strong. Suggestions that you could do to keep him off your mind, take up a new hobby. Scrapbooking, pottery, painting, exercising, advice columns ;), something that will distract you in a therapeutic way. Just take it one day at a time, and if that doesn't work, go for a more realistic goal, one hour at a time. Good Luck!!
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