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WHAT IS GOING ON
ok. here's the deal:: my little sister got a guitar for xmas so my mother had my exboyfriend (though she doesn't know we dated) come over and give her a lesson after school. Mom basically told me to stay out of the lesson (which was kinda hard to do since they were sitting in the living room) so I talked to people on AIM blah blah blah. ANYWAY I got hungry so i went into the kitchen. well, the way my house is set up, i had to walk past them in the living room. so, once i got into the kitchen my ex started playing his guitar and goes "hey, ________(name withheld), its your favorite song" and the way he looked at me just made me think ok, what the hell is going on and what is he up to. (i can't believe he even remembered that it was my favorite!) the last time we dated, he cheated on me with my cousin/best friend. some how my cousin/best friend found out about how he was at my house and that he said that so she's getting all pissy 'cause she thinks he wants to hook back up with me. (which is absolutely ridiculous; he cheated on me with her not the other way around.) but i've been thinking about it a lot and i'm thinking maybe there is something going on and i honestly don't know what to do. if you have any idea what is going on or what i should do please please please help me. it'd be greatly appreciated.
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I disagree with the person below.
Him remembering your favorite song means he wants you back?
That's not good enough evidence to come to such a far fetched conclusion.
It's not hard to remember someone's favourite song.
If you're asking whether he still likes you, only he will know - nobody on this website. So if you want to find out, you can either start talking to him more.. or just ask, basically.
How do you feel about him? Are any feelings still there? Despite him cheating on you with you cousin who is your BEST friend?
Give things some time. Then you will see things clearer.
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Considering the fact that he came to your house to learn the guitar and sang your favorite song, means that he still has feelings for you.
He clearly wants to have a second chance with you, but only if you allow him. Give him a second chance and see what happens. Don't turn him down, but you must talk to him and see whether he really loves you. Explain your feelings and that you a little confused as to what he's doing.
Love never dies in those who find their first love. You may want to regect, i don't, that's your call. But consider giving him a second chance.
Good luck with the future,
triquetra
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Let it go. I really don't see anything going on here. Don't overanalyze or scrutinize every detail. You should keep in mind that guys are a lot more simple than you think, so we usually don't have the thought out 15-step process most females do. For him it was probably as simple as 'oh, I remember she likes this song' and decided to point it out to you. Don't worry about your cousin/best friend either. If she gets mad then she it overracting and you shouldn't listen to her. So I say just let it go and don't expect much, or anything out of it. If you get your hopes up too high and keep thinking about what he could have meant or silly things like that, then it'll be that much harder to get over if you find out it was meant for nothing. So no worrying. Hope that helped.
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