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Just Stressed???


Question Posted Tuesday January 8 2008, 6:36 pm

Ok. I have been really good friends with this guy for quite a long time. Last year we kinda started v flirting and stuff.(wow.)Along the months we became more friends than in a bf/gf relationship.Really good friends, and well, that was really great with me.I loved it. Well, we go to different schools now. I eventually realized that i really had a crush on him.In the summer i was trying to forget about him completely so i could move on in my life, have a crush on someone else maybe. but it never worked, or even happened.If anything, i thought of him even more. I honestly haven't liked anyone else in 2 years!!


I care soooo much about him.I realize that sounds rediculous but it is so true.(By the way , i know the difference bettween puppy love.i do have experience with this kinda stuff, considering i watch my friends go throuigh it all the time. igt gets annoying sometimes) I actually worry about him though. There is not a day i don't worry about him. about three times a week, i constantly wake up at night thinking about him.I pray for him all the time, that nothing bad happens to him, and that he has a good life, and learns from his mistakes. I don't think that i'm IN love with him, but i DO LOVE him . no doubt.
I still talk to him all the time. i have told no one of these feelings, and i don't really think i want too. it is much harder typing them outin words than saying it because i have so much unexpressed feeling towards him that i cannot even explain.
I just wanted to know if anyone else out there has ever had the same "truely" strong feeling toward anyone. aka-Not just puppy love. this is mostly going out towards the experienced, the ones that have acually felt a strong, REAL love.(not really teens...srry)
This is not entirly a question, but i do think it could be advise.If there are any stories??
by the way, im in high school.
Thanx.


sAmeMistAke


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triquetra answered Wednesday January 9 2008, 9:03 am:
Talk to him and see how he feels about you. Then tell him that you've got incredibly strong feelings for him and that you want this relationship to go further. There is nothing more you can do than to speak to him.

i hope this helps,
triquetra

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mooch789 answered Wednesday January 9 2008, 1:08 am:
I have expirenced this. You just need to tell him how you feel straight out. Keep this relationship with him and see if it turns into something beter. Still talk to him? That is great if you do. Who knows, maybe it'll turn out for the best. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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