ok, i know the chances of getting pregnant from pre-cum are very slim, but i still have a few concerns.
Ill recap everything briefly..
- My period was due around December 23rd but didnt come
- December 28th.. Oral on BF, there was precum for sure. Im guessing the pre-cum would of gone though considering it was oral.
- We stopped for him to finish off elsewhere
- He touched himself, and went to touch me, not sure if he had anything on his fingers, but i stopped him before his fingers got in.
- I asked my first question on the 3rd of January.
Anyway..
- My period is still late now
- Over the past few days i have had an unusual stomache ache, it does not feel like period pain
- I have been feeling a little sick
- I have been discharging a little heavier and a little more than usual
Maybe my body is playing tricks on me with the nausea and the stomache ache because i've been stressing about the whole situation.. and i infact have nothing at all to worry about.. My friend said that i may be getting the stomache aches because of my late period, but im not to sure?
I know my previous answers were to get a pregnancy test to knowfor sure but at the moment thats not possible.
Anyway i just want a few more opinions, what do you make of this?
" A missed period -- (if your periods are usually regular).
A short, scant period.
Breasts that are sore, tender or swollen.
You feel sick to your stomach, or you are vomiting.
Fatigue -- feeling more tired than usual.
You need to urinate more often than usual.
Mood swings
These symptoms most often don't occur until you have missed your period for about 2 weeks, but this varies from woman to woman, symptoms can occur earlier for some women (sometimes a week after a missed period). I was queasy about a week after conception. (Amy, RN)
Remember, the onset and degree of pregnancy symptoms will vary from woman to woman and from pregnancy to pregnancy. Many women experience them within a week of conception, others take a few weeks."
I know you say you can't find a way to get a test, but that is the only way of knowing for sure. I wish there was a more simple solution, but there isn't.
My suggestion? I think the potential father could try to scratch up the money to pay for the test, and a way to go purchase one. As late as you are, he has the right to know you are worried you're pregnant.
He did his share of causing this worry, he can do his share by helping you find out if there is reason to worry.
AngelofMercy answered Monday January 7 2008, 5:21 pm: Still haven't started yet? I'm one of the ones that tried to help before. I'm sorry you haven't started yet. Can you get to your local Health Department? Maybe, even try and get a doctor's appointment for something else and don't have your parent go in there with you. Tell the nurse that you may think you are pregnant and get a test done by that. If this isn't available, the only other option I can think of is to wait and see, since you can't go and get a pregnancy test. If need to, try and call around to different health clinics that are available. That is going to be your best bet. If you tell your mom that you are sick to your stomach and feel like you need to go to the doctor, and go from there. Not letting her in the exam room with you for privacy. The doctor cannot talk to your mom about the pregnancy issue. It's against the law. I hope to some degree, I have helped. If you need help, I'm here. Good Luck!!
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Matt answered Monday January 7 2008, 4:54 pm: I didn't bother reading all of your question, but how are the chances of you getting pregnant with precum very slim? Some guys have more sperm in their precum than semen.
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