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I'm tired of it... =|
My 15-year-old sister is horrible. I'm only two years younger than she is but she treats me like I'm some kind of slave to her or something. And it's all the time. I'm usually a really passive person about things like this, but I'm just downright sick of being forced to live with this kind of treatment from her.
I had my two friends, Rachel and Beth, over a couple nights ago and we went straight downstairs, keeping to ourselves, minding our own the whole time. Then my sister barrels down the stairs and yells at me in front of my friends because I didn't let the dogs in after they'd been let out. My sister called my dad and told him, "Dad, she hasn't been helping me all day and I've done all the work and her friends are so rude to me." Even though, for one, I'd done her AND my chores because she had threatened a phone call to dad.
And I believe that the only remark my friends had was "You could have just opened the door because you were already upstairs." and that's not rude at all. So then my dad came home and yelled at me in front of my friends, and guess what? They had to go home and I was grounded for a week. All because of my sister's lying.
And then I found out that my sister did some stuff with this college guy who never liked her anyway. So I promised her I wouldn't tell anyone and I never did. But she continues to treat me like she does.
She lies to my parents about so much stuff. I get in trouble for things I don't deserve to be in trouble for. And I can't tell them that she's lying because she denies it and they believe her because shes the 'mature' one and the older one.
Help?
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Remeber, you can still tell them that your sister 'did some stuff' at college. I know that it was a promise, but she's been treating you horribly so you've got every right. So in fact, you can use it as a threat, saying that you'll tell your parents if she doesn't stop. If she doesn't and you tell your parents, her behavior should change.
I hope this helps,
triquetra
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tell her that if she doesn't stop doing that that you'll tell you'r parents about that college guy
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this calles for something really like serius well for one just calm down and everything will go smoothly and just remind her constently that you know and could tell anybody what shes been up to with that guy. And give her the look when she is telling on you and that will hopefully knock her back to her senses. And if this works wich will probably shell stop.
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i agree with matt, now is the time to tell your parents about all the stuff your sister has done. it may seem childish, but it will take a lot of the attention off of you. it won't hurt to be extra responsible for a while to make it seem like she's not. and you can "frame" her, if you know what i mean. if she's done all kinds of crap to you, now it's your turn. i have an older sister so i know how you feel. it gets better when they go to college, trust me.
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Tell your parents about the college guy. Then tell them that you checked her pregnancy test because she was too afraid to look, and luckily it was negative.
Let the lolz ensue!
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