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To love or not to love....
Ok so normally, i would be the person to solve everyone elses love problems. but now i have my own problem and im stumped. So theres this guy that i am still in love with. We dated for 3 months and we just recently broke up. We have decided not to get back together because he is currently seeing someone else. His ex whom he dated before me. I found out when we were dating that he called her all the time and told her he still had feelings for her and one time i read a text message he sent her that said goodnight baby. So i told him i couldnt do it anymore because i was tired of feeling like i was always coming in second place to him when i always made him my priority. I felt like it just wasnt fair to myself. So he is dating her now. But he keeps telling me that he still likes me alot and knows that one day we will be together again but right now he just needs to be with her because he cant hurt her again and he just needs to do that for now. But i still just cant let go. so my question is do I just walk away and move on? or do i wait for him like i want to? We both know that were going to get back together again but what am i suppose to do while he is with her???
Thanks
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Tell him to make up his mind!!!
OK, well I'm not saying that he is 'cheating' on you or his girlfriend or whatever, but it doesn't seem fair that he is going back and forth just to not hurt feelings. What if he is going back to you and telling his girlfriend that he is doing it not to hurt your feelings? Whatever the case may be, you need to sit him down and ask him to sort out his feelings. Its not the worst thing in the world if the person you like has feelings for somebody else and you at the same time. When that happens, dating back and forth between the two can just complicate things. I think it would be best for him to not be dating any of you at the moment until he sorts things out. It seems that both of you also like him. Unless you and his girlfriend are OK with both dating him at the same time, he should try to decide on one of you to make things fair and not lead on the other. There will probably be some hurt, hopefully its not on your side. If you want to wait it our like he said then it might complicate things, but thats up to you. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Well since he goes with someone. You should either take a break or Just go with someone since he goes with someone else.
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Ok i wouldn't just sit around and wait for him..that just shows him that he can choose whoever and you will always wait for him. I think you have to carry on with your life whilst he is with the other girl. Maybe meet someone else for now :) Then if one day he turns round to you and tells you he wants to be back with you then you can get back with him :) Who knows maybe you might not want to anyway :D Good Luck x x
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