Member Since: January 5, 2008 Answers: 2 Last Update: January 5, 2008 Visitors: 482
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Ok so normally, i would be the person to solve everyone elses love problems. but now i have my own problem and im stumped. So theres this guy that i am still in love with. We dated for 3 months and we just recently broke up. We have decided not to get back together because he is currently seeing someone else. His ex whom he dated before me. I found out when we were dating that he called her all the time and told her he still had feelings for her and one time i read a text message he sent her that said goodnight baby. So i told him i couldnt do it anymore because i was tired of feeling like i was always coming in second place to him when i always made him my priority. I felt like it just wasnt fair to myself. So he is dating her now. But he keeps telling me that he still likes me alot and knows that one day we will be together again but right now he just needs to be with her because he cant hurt her again and he just needs to do that for now. But i still just cant let go. so my question is do I just walk away and move on? or do i wait for him like i want to? We both know that were going to get back together again but what am i suppose to do while he is with her???
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*SM (link)
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Well since he goes with someone. You should either take a break or Just go with someone since he goes with someone else.
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ok so my bff and a guy had a major thing at the begining of last school year. It kind or died away when she moved on. A few months later i started hanging out with that guy. We got close, she really doesnt like it when we hang out im not sure if she is jealous even though she is the one who left him or what but she doesnt like it. anyways ok so me and this guy were hangin out one night and i lost my virginty to him. this was like 2 months ago and i still havent told my friend. she knows everything about me but this ahh should i tell her and take the chance of her being really mad or just live by the "what she doesnt know wont hurt her" standard???!?!!?
helpppp (link)
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well. The best thing to do is to tell her. But to fix it all maybe if you really like this guy, just go up to her and say "im so sorry, i really liked this guy but...its obvious just to say I had sex with him, Im so Sorry if you're mad but I just liked him so much. It may have been a mistake may not have, but I've got to move on and just tell you sorry." Now if you know shes gonna get mad at you just turn around and walk away after you say that, If shes still mad at you after like lets say a week just try and talk to her.
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