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i dont know what to do about my relationship =[
ok so i might sound like a complete loser.. but me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year, and at the begining it was great, i thought i was so in love with him and i just always wanted to be with him. but as it went on i started excluding my friends and eventually my friends just stopped talking to me because i would always turn them down when they wanted to hang out and ect. for my boyfriend. and now my boyfriend is pretty much the only friend i have. for the past few months ive realized that i dont really even like him much anymore. hes become a total jerk to me, but the only reason i think ive stayed with him is beacuse i think i love him because hes the only one there for me.. idk what to do?
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i know exactly how you feel. i have been with mine for almost 2 yrs..and the difference is i ditched my friends right away. i would see my boyfriend all day everyday. i even spent an entire summer barely seeing them. i am one lucky person to still have my great friends. i made things better, i apologized, and i definitely started hanging out with them again. now we are in college , so when they come home for break i make it priority to see them.
what you should do is this:
- keep in mind good friends will ALWAYS be there..your bf may not
-definitely talk to your friends and apologize!
-hang out with them more often! work out a system where one weekend you spend friday night with your bf and saturday night with your friends.
change your ways, dotn ditch them again
-making a card,photo album, etc for your friends could be a great idea.
-spell it out to your bf that you dont want to continue with no friends and seeing him constantly.
good luck,.i hope everything works out well with your friends
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If i was you i would try to start talking to your friend again. Do this whilst your still with your bf, so they dont think your only doing it because you have no-one else. Spend more time with them, and still spend some time with your boyfriend aswell. Eventually, when you have your friends back, you can leave your boyfriend is he is being a jerk with you. Once you have your friends back you will probably realise that you really dont like him that much anyway :) Good Luck x x
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This was a big mistake that you made. Friends before boyfriends, ALWAYS. If you don't feel an interest in him anymore, then break up. There's no use for wasting your time with someone you don't even like that much anymore. If your friends were truly your friends to begin with, they will come back to you. If not, time to get new friends. Just explain to one of your 'friends' that you made a mistake, and you really want to see them again. Be careful of sounding desperate, or they will take advantage of that.
Best of luck.
Message me if you need further assistance.
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