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Dose it mean he's violent?


Question Posted Tuesday January 1 2008, 9:12 pm


I have a guy friend although we are not going out but in a friendship like hanging out. My girl friend told me not to keep in touch with him
because he dress like a grandpa but she was joking though. Well, i told him about the joke and so the next day he told me that he was waiting for a parking space for hr. and half. and some boy took his spot while he was waiting first. He got mad and came out of the car and said he get your dam car out of the my parking space. and that boy was rude and wouldnt so punched the car and almost got a fight with the boy was in his teen
but security came and told them both to leave. The teenager wanted to call the cops too. Anyway, he doesnt seem like that kind of person
and he told me he never lost his cool like that before. He told me was cuz he couldnt get his new cell phone and his credit card had some problems and he was thinking about what my friend had joke about him and affected our freindship which added up the anger. that same day of the fight was that i remember he asked me out but i made up 3-4 excusese not to go.

Well, i recall he also told me in the past he used to teach a kid esl and told me i have patience with seniors but not with kids. He made me mad and i gave him a lecture.

When we hungout last wk. He got a bit irritated when i talked about other guys and didnt walked
beside him and didnt want to sit down to have a drink together. He may sense that i dont really like him but i jsut treat him as a casual friend cuz we're not at that stage.

So does it seem like he has a temper problem and tendancy to get violent?




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ChevyIINova answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 3:05 am:
Sounds like he may have the potential for being violent. But what worries me, is why. He obviously feels vindictive for a reason. Maybe he was just having bad day that day. I know I can get angry sometimes at what I feel are inconsiderate, thinking they are the only ones alive people. Overall, I'm a good guy and would give the shirt off my back to you but I'm old-fashioned too. I believe opening the doors for the ladies and helping old folks out too. I'd dump him if he got violent with you or aggressive. If you "dig" him and he digs you then you'll not have to worry about anyone messing with you. However, if he tries to control you then take that as a warning.

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