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why am i so weird. i get a crush on my cousin and then a close family friend whos like a cousin. wtff how can i stop this. sometimes its kinda embarassing cuz with the other guy who isnt family like we all consider each other family since we all come from like the same country like we're all immigrants in america n stuff. blegh. i dont think ive told anyone in my fam about it for the sake of awkwardness n just plain wrongness lol so how can i like banish these feelings. 13/f
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well if you and your cousin are close itts okay to feel close to him but i would not tell him about the crush keep that on the DL. for the guy thats like family think about what your family will think if word were to get out about you liking him. it might be awkward for him becuase he sees you as family you know. these feelings will go away one day i dont think soon though. just try and stay in the right fram of mind around your cousin and the other guy thats like family.
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The other person is right, this cousin is close to you so you feel drawn to him. If you have just moved here from another country, or have been here but not your whole life, you are feeling a bond with them because it is what you know. That is why we connect with people, because they have the same attributes (such as: same heritage, same feelings on stuff, same outlook, same interest, etc..) There is nothing wrong with feeling that bond, but don't pursue dating your cousin. That wouldn't be good. However, yes the friend that is not related, is fair game. Just a thought though, mix and mingle, meet new friends, and develop bonds with other cultures. I promise we don't bite!! ;) Good Luck!!
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it isn't really wrong to have a crush on someone close to you. you cant really control how you feel. you probably just know so much about them you start to like them more than a friend. You can't date your cousin because that is family but you could date your family-friend. I don't think your family would find it weird. but for now it is just a crush. it will probably stop soon and you can meet a guy that you can like without feeling awkward
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