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okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months and counting. and first off, i want to say that i love this boy, i realllly reallllly do. this isn't just a "fling" like my other relationships have been. he cares about me the same way that i care for him, and i know it. we're the perfect couple and everything. at the beginning of our relationship, i did treat him bad. no i never cheated or anything, i would just be mean. so one night we broke up and he ended up kissing a girl which really hurt, but that's in the past now and i've forgiven him. i can talk to him about anything and everything so he's basically perfect. we've had a rough spots and we broke up again about 3 weeks ago and got back together again. we're doing great so far and i plan on hanging out with him tomorrow but for some reason i feel wierd.. yesterday i didn't really feel like saying "i love you" as much. i told him that and he told me it was fine and that whenever i wanted my space or just to do my own thing for a day it was perfectly fine. anyways, today i felt wierd again and he keeps asking why i'm always mad at him and sometimes i do joke around where he thinks i'm mad, but i'm really not. i tell him i'm not mad. but he keeps urging it and yeah, IT DOES MAKE ME MAD. so he's hanging with his bestfriend who i don't like and who doesn't like me, long story, and me and my boyfriend got into a lil fight. i don't know if i should call him or just go to sleep... PLEASE HELP I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS FEELING. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE EVERY REASON TO BE HAPPY. i don't know if it's just because i haven't seen him in a week, and he would be the first to tell you everything's better when we're together, SO PLEASE HELP, THANKS!
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maybe you should just call him, realationships are differnt between everyone you have your ups and you have your downs. sometimes also when you see someone to much you tend to get a little more annoyed at they. maybe you should take a break from him and just hang out with your friends..
and maybe if your ready quezze in that little i love you..if your ready.
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All relationships have highs and lows. That is just how it works.
If you love each other, then you need to feel as though you can talk to one another about your issues, no matter how big or small.
Something is making you feel this way. It is also giving him the impression that you are mad.
The best thing you can do is just talk it out with one another until the problem comes out so it can be solved.
And if he does something that makes you mad, like insisting that you are mad, say so. He can't fix what he doesn't realize is a problem.
Don't get into fights over him hanging out with his best friend. That isn't fair to your boyfriend.
You don't like each other, but he likes you both. You have to respect him and accept his friend, and his friend needs to give the same respect.
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