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loser friend


Question Posted Monday December 31 2007, 12:06 am

I grew up with this girl whom I always used to defend and then in middle school we parted ways, she dumped me but just for a year until she became like my stalker but i no longer want to be her friend. Shes always there and like all over me so i had my friend talk to her and it didnt work so i talked to her it didnt work so i have just plain asked her to leave me alone but it didnt work. wat do i do?

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Brandi_S answered Monday December 31 2007, 8:58 am:
I agree with the other columnist that you don't want to be rude and hurt her feelings. That is just cruel. It seems she must look up to you quite a bit to be such a stick-tight.

Just tell her that the friendship is going nowhere and it's time for her to move on and find other friends.
Tell her that she is a bit on the clingy side, and it makes you uncomfortable.
Tell her that since you can't hold your end of the friendship, it is unfair to both of you for you to have to pretend.
Remind her that there are others out there she can hang out with that can give her the friendship she is seeking.

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khadiya answered Monday December 31 2007, 5:01 am:
Tell her again. But tell her more than "leave me alone" Tell her its not ho it used to be and you dont want to hang with her anymore. Also let her no that it would be appreciated if she left you alone. Try not to embarrass her. Or hurt her feelings.

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