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losing friendship
okay, let me just say this. i recently lost my best friend, over some complicantions. and now we are just friends. ever since my life had gone down into a sunken hole of a depression and i don't know what to do. lets just say, i was in love with himm and now we are just friends. though this only happened like a week and half ago. anyways, one of my friends went out with this one guy. i swore i would never like him, they dated for about 8 months on and off. all and all she hates him now. she got into a relationship a few months after that, and shes been in this relationship for an year almost in 2 weeks. anyways, she still hates her ex. she pretty much changed since she started dating her boyfriend whom at the time was her best friends brother..and isolated everyone out and treated us like crap other than her other best friend and her boyfriend. so we can't stand who she became. anyways, im still good friends with her ex, well we all are and whatever. i have a class with him and he's best friends with my cousin, so i have to put up with him in a way. anyways, i found myself liking him, and i know if she ever found out i liked her ex or if anything happened, she would end the friendship. though our friendship is pretty much already gone as it is since on how she is treating everyone. i still care about her and i don't want to hurt her like that. i accidently slip it out to one of my friends who is the sister of her boyfriend since well im friends with her of course. and all she had to say was how thats so cute, and "awww" and how shes probably gonna stop talking to me when she finds out i like her ex.. anyways, then 2 of my other friends found out, so only 3 people know..and they werent much help..and its making me a wreck because i don't know what to do. and i no longer have a best friend i could really go to, because my best friend well ex best friend didn't know her before she had a boyfriend, we had became friends with my best friend only 4 days before she starting going out with this guy, so his view on her is totally different and what not. all and all, i miss my best friend and i don't know what to do, i have no one to really talk to about this and its tearing me apart and making me a complete wreck. :(
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I'm confused?
She is refusing to talk to you because you like her ex? She has been involved with another guy for a year?
What?
Listen- just because she hates her ex, or whatever, doesn't mean a thing when it comes to you liking him.
So things didn't work out with her and him, big deal, that's life. Maybe they will work out with you and him, and so she is mad at you about that?
Come on. That isn't how a friend acts, let alone how a best friend acts.
Don't allow her to ruin your happiness in this life. She has already basically written you off by ignoring you, so just let it go and move on.
There are other, much better friends out there who can become your best friend.
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so i have BRILLIANT getting friends advice ok so at summer camp i was extremly popular i didnt know why all i was doing was being my self so you should just be yourself dont be anyone eles at all you will never get friends that way do you know why its because you seem...well...you seem fake really you seem strest out all the time and you will be like freakky just be yourself its the best thing to do just start all over with your life and find the person that you really are good luck and i hope i helped if you have any other quistions or problems please feel free to ask me
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