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love or lust?
so, i have this guy friend. "jim" (;. we're like best friends, we hang outall the time. my best girl friend & his best guy friend are going out, so usually its the 4 of us. im very attracted to him physically, but i like his personality too, like when im sitting next to him all i want to do is kiss him, but i dont know how to let him know. he's never had a girlfriend, and hes prude, but hes definitely straight. i just dont know if it would be weird. but anyway, i just always want him to hold me, hes so strong, but like when he does touch me i get these little electric shockish things i guess you could say? like my heart skips a beat. i always want to hang out with him too, if we're all gonna hang out i always say "is jim gonna be there?" or "wheres jim?" .. do you think its love or lust?
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if he's never had a gf. then it would be good to be his first. because he actually knows you.. but remember. you have to take it gently and slowly. i think it's love. but it might not be love yet. you might really really like him. but i doubt it's love. yet... just go with you're heart. tell him how you feel. but do it gently. dont blurt it out. just talk to him. and then tell him.. dont let him go. i hope i helped. =]
april 8, 2008. 3:31am.
just a question,
did it work with you and "jim"?????????
im super curiousssssssss.
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Dear Love or Lust,
I think this 'Jim' guy sounds nice and it's great that you two are good friends because some girls find it hard to talk to guys. Lol.
I think you have a question to ask yourself:
'Do you really want to be with him, kissing him and whether you Love him.' If the answers are yes, then it's deffinatly Love.
In this case you will have to talk to him personaly face-to-face to tell him the proper truth. Or you could try and find out whether he likes you back the same way (mabe through your best friend and her boyfriend).
If you have any more queries please don't hesitate to post a question in my Inbox. 9/10 i'll reply ASAP.
From, SuperDuperJess. x
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love and lust are interrelated, you can't have one w/out the other, but since you guys are really good friends, and you like his personality enough to find attractive, then you are not all consumed by lust, you truly do like him! i question why i like someone too, but you know you like them when you can't flirt w/another guy w/out thinking about "jim" :)
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