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Love help from GUYS and girls
13/f
I have 2 "bffs". They are sorta mean to me, but not all the time. I tried to talk to them before but they call me the mean one, which they have no right to do cuz I am sooooooo nice to them. I don't really wanna be friends with them anymore. I have some really close friends who are guys and i want to be really good friends with them. They are so much nicer to me.How do i get rid of my old bffs without being mean? And how do I become bffs with guys without looking like an idiot?? THANKS
R☺chee
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don't tell them you don't want to be their friend anymore, just kind of "fade away". same with the guys. don't really ask them to be their friend, just kind of "fade into" their group. like ask them if they want to hang out one weekend or something. good luck!
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if you really dont want to come straight out and say "hey, i dont wanna be your friend anymore" or anything like that, just kind of "drift", if you know what i mean. start hanging out with other people, and whenever your old 'friends' ask to hangout, just tell them your busy, or you cant, or something. then it wont be like you guys are enemies, you just wont be realrealreal close anymore. youll be more like aquantances. however you spell that. (:
hope i helped. (:
xoxo
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Well, as for the guys, hang out with them more.
As for the others, why worry about how mean you sound if they are mean to you?
Besides, they already seem to think you are mean, so just live up to that by telling them the friendship just isn't working anymore.
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