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firend in need
i have a really close friend. and last year she found out she was pregnant i stuck by her the whole time. she had the baby but when she came back to school she had told me she gave it up for adoption. shes really skinny so no one knew but me. not even her parents. now she just came clean and broke down and told me that she was to scarred to give the baby up so she keeps her in the basement and goes down there when noone is home to take care of her. im really scarred what should i do. please help
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It really is hard to keep a pregnancy from parents as to what the person below me said they are right maybe your friend isn't telling the truth she could just be looking or asking for attention I really find it hard to believe that she keeps the baby (if she does really have one) in the basement ...I mean come on think about it ? if there really is a baby in the basement her parents would've already found out because they would've heard it crying and suspected something...did you ever see her while she was pregnant? As a good friend I'd get her counceling because she is seriously crying for attention or I'd talk to her parents .
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honnnnnnnestly, it's not possible to hide a pregnancy from your parents unless you don't live with them. perhaps she's lying...did you ever physically see her pregnant? or have seen her 'baby'? : I don't know. It just sounds a bit sketchy to me with the information you gave.
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Have your friend open up to her parents. If she does the baby can grow up in a safe inviroment. If her parents would be abusive of her or the baby tell a teacher, or police officer. GOOD LUCK!
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that is a pretty frightning story
i would highly recomend that she tell her parents and soon because they will find out
im not only saying this for her safety but for the baby's. what will happen if she has to go somewhere for the whole day! what will happen if she cant afford all the things for the baby. the baby's health could definatly be in jepordy! so i would recomend you telling your friend to at least tell her parents. tell her if she loves that baby, she wants him/her to be in good health and be safe
and hopefully her parents will handle the situation from then on
im glad you are asking for help and i feel for you. that is a tough spot to be in. good luck
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She's probably lying to you.
Speak to a guidance counselor at school or, have your parents talk to her parents. On the off chance that she telling the truth that baby MUST be removed from her care or it will likely die.
However, it's next to impossible that her story is true. The hospital would never allow a fifteen year-old to remove thier child and take it home without speaking to her guardians, and I seriously doubt her parents would have missed the whole 'labour' ordeal, which ussually requires a day or two or serious recovery, even if they didn't notice her pregnancy.
If she is lying, it will be figured it out pretty quickly, and give her the help that she needs to stop this attention seeking behavior.
Take a deep breath, she is most likely telling you a story, but you should get an adult involved because it is not mentally sound of her to make such a thing up.
Think about this seriously and I think you will realize that this is purely attention seeking on her part, but it must be stopped. No matter what the truth is, your friend is in desperate need of help. Tell an adult.
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