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Child Abuse?
I'm a girl and I'm 15. My mom has always hit me when I did something wrong. She stopped when i was like 12 to this year. Now shes starting again. And its for stupid stuff like me forgetting to put my pajamas in the hamper and then me talking "fresh" to her because shes yelling at me for a stupid reason. I don't have an attitude utill she yells at me. Then I do. And then sometimes i get hit. One time when I was 11 she hit me with a cat litterbox. Just a few weeks ago she punched me in the back of the head repeatedly. It was hard enough to hurt and leave a bump. Then the same like 5 minutes she was about to punch my face, then i answered the ringing phone so she stopped. I could defend myself. But if I do, i'll get punished. And because that is totally unfair, I'll try to go against it and yell and get hit again. I threaten my mom that i'm going to get her taken away. My question is is it possible? I don't have any bruises or any proof, except my hatred for her. I really want her to get send away. I can't take it anymore. Next time she hits me, its either going to be me or her who will leave. By the way, my dad is a nice guy but he doesnt defend me. I hear him yelling at her sometimes. And when she randomly talks mean to me he'll say "what the hell is wrong with you?" or something like that. But she hits me when hes not home. I know he doesnt love her. I think he does, but just because shes his wife. I one time found, what i thought was, pictures of stripper on his phone. Please help me
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Get help!!! Use logic. Who will they belive the child or parent. Your life as I see it is at steak you need to be prepared. If she hits you again talk to some body, if they don't believe you get footage, if you have a camara you can hide it somewhere and when she hits you you'll have it on tape. Be safe and GOd Bless. Good luck I'll pray for you.
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This is wrong your mom shouldn't be punishing you for no reason. sounds to me as if she's taking out her frustration on you which is wrong . The next time she hitts you or tries to hitt you calmly ask her "why are you hitting me" but don't say it in a way that'll get her started just calmly ask her why and after she's done hitting you tell her " what was the purpose of that? Do you feel better about yourself?" if she continues treating you this way I'd get help as much as you don't want to get taken away from her its not worth sticking around getting left marks and pain for nothing. As for your dad what he's doing isn't enough he should put his foot down and put a stop to this he should be helping her deal with her issues by not taking them out on you . I'd get HER help not you simply because you haven't done anything wrong and she's the one doing everything wrong I'm sorry you have to live and deal with this I hope you get her help .
Good luck
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wow, im sorry
this is a tough situation
heres what i think will help
at school go to your counsler (the reason i say that is because you can see her easily)
talk to her and tell her everything
im sure she will have solutions
i know she will help you
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Hey my ame is Em231 and I think I can help you ok
You can get your mom sent away you just pronbaly
have to call 911 Ok. You mom is very a abusive you
need to talk to a counsler at school or something
ok!
I hoped I helped
Em231:)
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Go and tell somebody whom you're really close to what's happening, it could be your neighbour, your teacher, your friend, anybody whom you think can help.
Note: Go to these people first and see whether they will help. If not, go to the next paragraph
Even go to the police. They will listen to you and help you, that's what they're there for. Try and get a video of this happening because they will belive you and back you up.
Don't be afraid, nobody in this whole world deserves such treatment. Don't be afraid to speak out, because you could encourage other children like yourself to speak out against abuse.
I hope this helps,
triquetra
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You need to talk to a local helpline or youth worker even a teacher at school this is illegal what she is doing you there is no excuse you must act now as it may get worse..even another family member just so its got someones attention but really you must tell someone.
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