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should i show him that i love him by what?
idk how i should show him that i love because im still a virgin but its like i want to lose it to him. but i just dont kno how i should. i asked him what he wanted for christmas and he said nothing just for me to be with him and in his arms all day and i want to give him more than that but i just dont kno what should i lose it to him? because i love him so much and i want to be with him for a as long as i can and i just dont kno what to do please help me!! asap
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So many girls make the mistake of losing it to a guy in hopes it will make him stay with her longer. Dont make the mistake of losing your virginity and wastign it. You will KNOW when you are ready, like everyone else said you wont need to ask for advice. When i was ready, it hit me. I knew, there was no doubts, i was completely ready and my bf and i have been together for 2 years pretty much. Your bf doesnt seem like he is pressuring you which is a great sign. For Christmas just do something cute like snuggle up and watch movies together, maybe make him a nice meal, bake cookies, give him a cute card or something and just enjoy spending time together. Sex should wait until you are ready and know for sure. :)
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I'll agree with the below. If you are asking strangers on an advice website if you should have sex, then the answer is probably no.
Honestly, one of the best christmas presents I ever recieved was a very well cooked meal and a 2 hour shoulder and back massage. Its all about the effort and thought that goes into the present.
But no, you shouldnt have sex as a present. Not when hes the first guy you would ever have slept with.
On the one hand, start your sexual adventures off right, be with someone at the right time for you. On the other hand, in 10 years you probably wont give too much of a damn about how you lost it. Keeps things in perspective.
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Ok, you are probably not going to like this answer. But you need to know the truth so here it goes. If you arent sure, and you are asking us, then you are not ready. Dont loose your virginity to a man unless you are 100% sure you want to and make sure you wont regret it in the future. Dont let him force you because then thats sexual abuse. This is mean, but no matter how much you love him, chances are that you will not be with him forever. People change and couples break up. They almost always do. So if you are going to do it with him, then keep that in mind. :) Good luck with your decision. Use both your brain and your heart and do not feel pressured. You dont have to do anything you dont want to.
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