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Afraid.... Embarrassed.... Worried: I hate the skin around my vagina!
Well I am sexually active but I usually never let guys look down there cause I hate the skin around my vagina. It is irritated and purple, and almost bruised. I feel soo emarrassd and afraid that if a guy sees it he is going to be totally turned off by it.....
so I am not sure what to do. I do not have an STD i have gone to the gyno. It is only there because i am overweight and my thighs rub together causing the bruising and irritation.
My current b/f in dying to give me oral, but i won't let him cause of how it looks. What should i do!?!!?
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he has already look past your weight- he is with you,he cares about you. he should understand how you feel. Every part of my body that i have ever thought was unattractive now feels beautiful to me beacuse my boyfriend helped me see that. Im sure it wont turn him off and hell probably tell you he wants to help make you feel better ;) definitely confide in him. you probly won't regret it.
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Honestly, hunni, I would just talk to my boyfriend about it, if I were you. There is no reason to not let him go down there, if you truly want it. Trust me, you'll like it! Haha. Best of luck and hope it all works out.
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tell your boyfriend about it, and if he cant accept that, then he doesnt deserve to be down there. it shouldnt be about how your vagina looks, it should be about him making you feel good.
if your talking about the inner part of your vagina, its supposed to be a purple-ish color.
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You have three options:
One. You may attempt to loose weight. If this means seeking medical or professional help to aid you, do so.
Two. You can tell your boyfriend honestly and openly what your concern is and why you will not allow him to perform oral. Even if he does understand and is respectful about it, it is still up to you if you are comfortable with it or not.
Three. You may continue to do nothing and refuse to let any guy see your vagina.
I would suggest both one and two. As you already know, three kinda stucks.
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