Question Posted Thursday December 13 2007, 11:16 pm
me adn my bf have been off and on for a year in a half. i love him and go crazy when im with him. he just has a way... what im worried about is if he cares about me... how do i know how he feels without making him feel that i'm pressuring him for info ya know
adverb answered Friday December 14 2007, 5:11 pm: well, you have two options really.
you can either ask him straight up to let him know that maybe he needs to start showing it
or
you could test him. do things, and if his response shows that he cares, then he does.
like, if you talk about other guys and he gets jealous, that's an immediate hint. [ adverb's advice column | Ask adverb A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Friday December 14 2007, 1:41 pm: Asking him how he feels is not pressuring for info. If he thinks it is, then he has the wrong idea of what a relationship involves.
You should be comfortable with one another to discuss your feelings.
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