this girl told me and my friend her dad gets drunk and beats her. we arent friends with the girl but we know her. then she said she was lying and her dad was really nice and was getting help but im not sure. she came in with bandades and said she was in a car crash. i dont know what to think. she said she wanted attenion. her parents seem nice and i know people who know them well
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Brandi_S answered Sunday December 9 2007, 12:28 am: Well, she could have said that she was making it all up because she feared what would happen at home if her dad found out.
You can't trust what people SEEM like. Even those who know her parents well only see their family from the outside. You never know what goes on behind closed doors.
Have you talked to your parents about this? You should. They can help you figure out how to help this girl. If her dad is truly getting drunk and beating her, she DOES need help.
sugarplum07 answered Saturday December 8 2007, 9:22 pm: I say it's better to be safe than sorry. I would alert a school counselor immediately about what she told you and let them take it from there. They will make sure your friend is not in any danger. If she was making it all up, the confrontation from the school counselor will teach her not to joke about such horrible things. If she wasn't making it up, she and her family will be able to get the help she needs.
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