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i just dont know... please help
so my life is pretty much going the wrong way. first the love of my life...(bf)... dumps me for nuthin. and then my labtop crashed so my mom got me a new one. im known as a spoiled brat. but i feel like im getting poorer cuz i aint really getting nuthin for christmas and stuff. so idk. my mom is getting like depressed and stuff and shes smoking again. and i wanna find a job but i dont turn 14 until december 24. and that aint old enough to get a job. the neighbors that moved in said i could babysit but they havent told me when yet. so i just needa do sumthin to earn money.
thankx
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LIFE SUCKS...if your boyfriend dumped you, you're gonna feel sad especially if you really cared about him..but eventually you'll get over him and an easy way to get over him is by dating another guy whos better than him. if you dont do that, then you just have to come to terms with yourself that you dont need him and you should have someone that makes YOU, the love of their life.
BE HAPPY...your laptop crashed but at least you have another one rather than nothing at all. When you arent greatful for the things you have you should start thinkning about the millions of people who dont even know what a computer is..who cant afford to eat on christmas or who have no family or money. who are basically less unfortunate than you...yea yea im sure you hear that all the time and you're probably thinking i know i know...but you have to take life as it is. rather then search for jobs and stressing about not having a job...(which is some thing i can definitly relate to, but im 16 now and its still hard to find a job)find programs that you can join and join different activities at school trust me it's worth it because when you become of age some one can hook you up with a job that you'll probably enjoy. if you Really want to make money then make sure you remind your neighbors about babysitting..show them that you're eager to have a job.
I UNDERSTAND your mom is depressed but PLEASE promise me and especially yourself that you dont let that affect you and the way you see your life. It can be hard trust me i know but you have to do good things that occupy your time. If you can, maybe you should talk to your mother about quit smoking again. yes shes your mom and you're her daughter and she is grown and she's gonna make her own decisions but maybe you can change them..because im sure she doesn't know everything that is best for her.
There is always gonna be ups and down in life but life goes on. Dont be miserable. The downs can last for what seems like forever but you will have your good times....
Hope I Helped <3 Kendra
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Thankyou for your question.
Well, seeing as you aren't really old enough, you can't get a "proper" job right now.
Here are a few tips to help you earn a bit of money.
*Start by asking your neighbours again
*Offer to walk neighbours dogs
*Offer to cut your neighbours grass and keep their gardens neat and tidy
*Try to get a small job (fruit shop for example)
*Sell things you don't want on ebay or in real life
*Bake cakes etc and sell them
*If you're good at a particular subject, become a tutor and charge a small fee
If it's okay to in the area you live, make some leaflets and hand them out. So if people need the odd job doing, they know who to call.
and remember, life does have it's ups and downs, but in the end you'll come out as a stronger person. Keep your head up and try not to worry. Things will get better eventually. :)
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