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Is it wrong????


Question Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 5:00 am

Is it wrong to be with somebody but want to sleep with somebody else??? Even if you know you will never act on it, kinda like you wanted to sleep with someone but then got a boyfriend thinking you wouldn't want to sleep with that other person. But for some reason you still do. You can't help your feelings right so is it wrong to hide that feeling away???

Thanks
16/f

P.S. i'm not a virgin so please don't give me the speech about sleeping with people at such a young age. if you don't i won't rate.


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Professor_Kaos answered Saturday December 8 2007, 10:38 pm:
People have fantasies. This doesn't go away when with someone. Yes, feelings for a bf/gf do take away a little bit of interest normally. But, you're human. You will want to sleep with other people no matter who you are dating. Whether or not you ever act on it is a personal decision. Your thoughts are normal and you shouldn't beat yourself up over it. It's the restraining that makes you faithful not the absence of fantasy.

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Brandi_S answered Saturday December 8 2007, 3:05 pm:
It is normal to be with one person and have feelings of sexual attraction towards another.
I don't understand what you mean by hiding it away- I mean, you don't want to announce it to the world or anything, and hurt your boyfriend's feelings, or cause him feelings of inadequacy.

ygs-29/f

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