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recently ive been gettin pretty involved with this boy i like no only physically but also emotionally we have been a thing for a couple months now but he hasnt made it official he talks to and seems to flirt with alot of girls which worries me that im being played i talked to him about it but he said im the only one he likes and he wants to be with me but i still dont understand and im really worried im going to end up in heartache becuase we havent really made any progress please help me out what should i do? do you think im being played?
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Everyone is different. Your boy may be genuine in the fact that he likes you, even if he does flirt with others. Some people flirt naturally and it may mean no harm.
There always is on the other hand.
You should talk to him and tell him whats on your mind without accusing him.
Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we're making slow progress because we don't want to rush things and regret it.
You should try to focus on enjoying his company more than anything.
When you do finally try and have a chat, you need to focus on his answers and his body language. If he dismisses the topic, he isnt worth your time.
And about trhe progress, he may be really shy but you also need to have a nice chat about that. you could maybe ask him what his relationship technique is, like does he like to take things slow? if he does, thats okay, you's both just need to be comfortable and respect each others wishes.
Good luck :)
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Why isn't it official?
Ask him that question. If he gives you a bullshit answer, and frankly after 'a couple of months' I'm not sure what decent excuse there could be, then end it.
Some people are okay with loose arrangement and no definitions. Some people like their relationships that way! Some don't.
Apparently you don't. That is okay.
Tell him so.
Better to loose an 'unoffical' boy now, then have a 'offical' one play you for a fool.
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Talk to him about it. No one knows him so we can't say if you're getting played or not. He does have a right to flirt with other girls since you guys aren't dating. If you really feel upset & uncomfortable by it, you should mention it to him & see if you guys can make things official. If you feel that he is playing you, you shouldn't try to start a relationship. It will end up hurting you more in the long run. You should try straightening things out. You should be friends or bf/gf. Anything inbetween becomes complicated.
-hope that helped!♥
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