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Going back?
I dated this boy for seven months, I was truly in love with him. We got into countless fights over other girls he would spend time with and definitions of cheating. Eventually I called it off. I've been miserable for the two months we've been apart, I haven't gone more then five hours without thinking of him. A lot of my friends despise him for the way the treated me at some points in the relationship.
Tonight I spent time with him, we went to dinner. It felt so .. comfortable being back with him. It was like things were finally back to normal, I even got butterflies. I think I'm still in love with it. Would it be stupid to try for a second shot at love?
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I wonâ??t call you stupid, but it's certainly not the brightest thing I have heard today.
It's okay for a couple to disagree on the definitions of cheating, but if you can't come to an respectable agreement about appropriate behavior with the opposite sex after SEVEN months, you and he never will agree.
You are literally flirting with disaster.
You have NO reason to think things have changed in two months.
You will not get him out of your heard, or your heart, until you get him out of your life. No more romantic date-ish dinners if you know what is good for you.
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You've been miserable because you got your heart broke, and it hasn't had time to heal.
Now you are thinking of going back out with him so you can feel that heartbreak all over again?
I wouldn't.
ygs-29/f
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If he cheated on you, and treated you like something stuck to the bottom of his sneakers, he doesn't deserve another chance. Why would you want a relationship with someone you're always fighting with and doesn't treat you like a person? It'll only get worse. Granted a relationship will have its disagreements, but you shouldn't be fighting constantly over stupid things.
Honestly, walk away from this guy and don't look back. You could very easily do better.
-LM
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