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Question Posted Sunday December 2 2007, 8:45 pm

me and my mom just got in this huge fight i actually cant stand her i cant evne be around her anymore we have been fighting for the last 3 years. She tells me all the time to leave but the thing is she has custidy of me im now 18 and i can go whereever but i dotn have any money to go anywhere. I just talked to my father today he said if worst comes to worst i can stay with him and he also has a car for me but i need to pay the insurance and get tags for the car plates i was just wondering how much that would cost so i can go get the car which would be my first step and then go find a cheap apt. Some one please help my life is like a living hell

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Brandi_S answered Monday December 3 2007, 1:55 pm:
One day you will feel bad for fighting with your mom. Smartest thing you can ever realize is that most things just aren't worth fighting about.
Just thought I would throw that out there.

As for tags and insurance, you have to find out the tags through your county courthouse, the insurance is based on your own personal driving record, etc, and has to be estimated by your insurance company.

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triquetra answered Monday December 3 2007, 12:50 pm:
I had a fight with my mum once, and i even said (out of anger) that i wouldn't be coming home for any weekedns (i board at school). But we spoke to each other and listened to one another and we resolved the issues.
Now, i don't know what you've been agruing about for 3 years or whether it is different things but you shouldn't just feel hatred towards her. You should be glad that she's trying to give you advice, and trying to help you and you must certainly never slam the door in her face (figurativly speaking), but listern to what she has to say, think about it and then act.
If this doens't work, then i would advise that you ask her to sit down with you, and you two and have a 'mother to son' conversation and try to work out your issues without arguing. And then be a loving son to her, what i mean is spend some quality time with her. Like going out shoping with her, play board games or watch films which you both enjoy and talk to her more often. Xmas is coming soon, so go an buy her something special and something from the heart and tell her how much you really love her.

Listening is the key to solving this, not shouting at each other and leave.

I really to hope this helps. Good luck for the future.

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