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Alright is he normal?
ok, lately the same guy that im talking about
so call as a brother and a friend too he email me and said he would give me some persoanl space because he respect me. but he would still talk to me but less and what i think about this. ok so next day i was surprised he called me 10am in the morning at school during his break
and i thought did\'t he talked about this? i kind of pretend i didnt get his call and he turned out to call me 11 times from 10 in the morining to 9:30 at night and text msg me 2 times i couldnt stand him calling and thought i need to calm him down but i was too tired to talk on the phone and whenever i talk to him at night on the phone i couldnt\' so i thought i would just email him instead turned on the computer and found out he msg me already on fb saying i know i said i\'ll give you some personal space but you havent even send me an email or text msg me? where were you i miss you for the whole day. i said i thought we agree to having some personal space that\'s why i didnt check my emails or retrum your call. why do you miss me we\'re only friends and ur like a brother to me. i can\'t promise you i can talk to you everyday. he said is that mean we\'re not friends? what\'s the matter you dont like talking to me? it that mean we\'re not going to talk anymore? i said we\'re still friend and ive been busy and tired now not sure about you but i gtg good night. then he said
no i want to talk to you saying that makes me worry. i said worry about what? i hope your not taking too seriously then he paused and said ok i ok good night but i stll like to talk to you.
he is always like that he send poems and cartoon pics on my fb and calls everyday if i dont\' pick up the phone he would leave a text msg and send email well i know i like the attention but ive been wondering why is he so obsessive over me? he normal? also, last week we almost hungout as freinds but he had to cancel because he had no car to go. i know he really wanted to go and he felt sad. but i was fine with it but had got his email asking me why is it so hard to be friend?
i busrt out in laughter replied ur the one who cancel the hangout what do you mean i didn\'t say nt say we;re not friends and everytime we talk about meeting up you neg on about it when i fianally say ok we go then you push me to say no and then you ask me why? you dont realise you care too much about my comfort that is great but too much of it gets annoyed. also, you wanted to buy me a $125 pen (carved with my name) for x-mas is too expensive its too much for being friends and if you have to i cant\'afford to buy you back a gift.
he apologized afterwards and felt bad and said he was selfish should of drive his dad\'s car eventhough it was mercedies and that he wouldn\'t force me to take such expensive gift but would like to still buy me a gift but its not going to be expensive after all. i told him its not that i understand but after all i haven\'t said anything and you assuming frienship was over didtn\'t quite made sense and so negative. so, after he said sorry a million times i have forgiven him but come to think of it i starting to can\'t stand him being so immature and stupid
but he is a friend after all and cares abotu me so much and cherrish me.
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its sounds like he's a little obsessed. If your not intrested in being in a relationship with him more than friends let him know that. He understands that both of you are friends but since you allow him to give you alot of attention i have the feeling he thinks you are interested and looking for more than a friend with him. Just talk to him, let him know you like the attention but dont want more than that, and that he should maintain distance. But let him know that this doesnt mean ya both cant be friends its just cant cant be more than that.
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