Question Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 4:43 am
Why do girls feel the need to go out of their way to attempt to steal other's boyfriends? I don't mean these two week or one month relationships, I'm talking about 1 year+ relationship. They feel or have this extreme confidence, that they believe they can win over the guy. I just don't get it. Shouldn't they be happy that guys find them attractive and want to be with them? It's irritating me. I'm trying to be happy in my relationship but when all of these girls think my guy will cheat.. it's just.. asldkhlds! I don't know WHY i'm jealous. i don't go to his school but these chicks like him. he obviously doesn't get it sometimes. the little things she does.. irritates me. like when she sits in between his legs sometimes. not close, but in the middle. What am I to do? I just want her to back off.. How can I stop being jealous? =[ I trust him, but not these chicks.
Brandi_S answered Thursday November 29 2007, 12:47 pm: Well, if you trust him, then these girls don't matter. If he cheats with them, it isn't because they twisted his arm to do so.
Some girls who CAN have every other guy they want to have, want your guy because he is a challenge. I think a girl like that has an inner competition to try to get what she CAN'T have.
I can't give you a sure-fire way to not be jealous (I'm the jealous type, myself), but it may help to keep in mind that you can be proud of yourself for having a guy so great EVERYBODY wants him.
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