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My friend is really starting to get to me now iv been putting up with the constant "acts" (being fake all the time) and the "fuck off just dont talk to me im not in the mood" ( probably because my hair didnt straighten probably this morning)
If i say one wrong thing towards her she gets in a big stress and will ignore me all day.. then later on in the day if i ask whats wrong she will twist it around and put the blame on me, making me feel really bad and i end up apologising this is the only way she will talk to me again. We have so much in coman and share everything togeather and tell each other everything! Yet after all of this shes is still exstremly popular with everyone especially the boys she acts so fake towards them but they think she is sooo hot, its so annoying when im just normal around the boys and just being myself i dont get anything back in return other than an insult or nasty glare half of the time!??, every thinks so much of her and no one can ever understand when i tell them about it?? I just dont no what to do about it anymore iv tryed almost everything i can think of!?!?
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ok calm down... I realize that you do not want to lose this friedship with her. So have a talk with her. Sit her down somewhere and ask her why she is under so much stress lately. Friends need to be very good listeners. So listen to what she has to say. If she is confused by what you are asking her. Give her some examples of what has happened. Just let your heart do all the talking and listen to her. Then talk to her on ways to solve it.
As for the guys part... you're doing the right thing. I actually have a friend who is so fake and always flirts with the guys... and she has had like 20 boyfriends already. And look at me, i'm normal with the guys... suure i flirt once in a while but thats only with 1 guy. she is like that with so many different guys. Don't be like your friend. Don't start acting all fake and trying to get boys. They will come. It just takes time. Don't think of the present time... think of the future. So in other words- don't think about how many dates she gets now... just think about how many dates she will NOT get in a few years because she will start to be known as a slut or whore. Then all of the guys will start coming towards you.
I hope I helped!
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