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He's an awful kisser!
My boyfriend is a terrible kisser. We've only been dating a few days, so I'm not sure what I should do about this. Its not the little kisses that are bad, those are perfect. But when we start to makeout, he grinds my lip in between his teeth and it hurts so bad. He's even cut my lip a couple of times. I try to pull away but he's usually got his hand on the back of my head and I can't make many more excuses to stop kissing him.
I tried asking him to be a little gentler, but he obviously didn't get the point and he even seemed offended. Is there any discreet way to tell him he's really hurting me when he does this?
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Tell him that you don't mean to offend him but what he's doing hurts. Let him know he has bitten or cut your lip in the past. Let him know you're saying this so things improve or another girl won't have to do it.
Like the previous poster said show him what to do. Practice will make perfect. It could be mutually pleasurable too. I haven't met a guy yet who would turn down the chance to practice kissing with a girl.
Trust me, you need to be blunt with him or nothing will change. You're doing him a favor because other girls if you break up will inherit the problem. You also don't want to start resenting him over this either.
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Be honest. Obviously it would be a real mean thing to do if you dumped him because of it, but kissing is sort of important. Try teaching him yourself. Explain gently [without hurting his ego] that sometimes when he does certain things while you make out, it actually hurts & is a bit uncomfortable. Show him what you want him to do. It might actually become fun. He shouldn't be upset by it. You are just trying to help him so it's more enjoyable for both of you.
-hope that helped!♥
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