well i am only 13 and im female, and I went out with this guy named john who ive liked since last year he asked me out a few times and I said no but finally I agreed to go out with him because at first he was all sweet and nice now he annoys me to death and I cant have a serious conversation with him so I broke up with him a month after HE IS STILL OBBSSED WITH ME after such a long time but now I have sort of fallen for one of his supposed "friends" his name for now is BILLY well I dont really talk to him I bearly know him well john found out that I like billy and now he keeps saying that he told him but i doubt it and john also said that they are best friends but when i asked billy he said no not really so i want to know if john really told Billy or its just a lie I really want to get to know billy more but i dont know how to approach him in a way to become friends and no more any suggestions
ps: sorry it was so long and going out with john again is not an option he goes out with someone else but loves me not her
Don't pay any attention to him and focus on Billy, you want to get to know him better, ask him questions. Smile when he looks at you. Just do little things that make the bond b/t you guys stronger and happier. :)
olivia13 answered Monday November 26 2007, 3:34 pm: well if it were me i would talk to john and explain to him why you broke up with him and then ask him to tell you the truth about what he told billy. if he still says that he told billy then confront billy in private and tell him how you feel and don't pressure him into anything just tell him how you feel and who knows, he might just feel the same way. hope that might have helped a little.
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xomegaroni answered Monday November 26 2007, 3:09 pm: I think you need to sort out your feelings. If you think John is too clingy & don't like him that way, be nice & explain how you want to remain friends but not spend so much time around him & that you need your space. Does Billy know your feelings? You should sit down with both of them seperately & explain the situation. You want to avoid drama. If you want to get to know Billy better, ask him to hang out as friends first. Try going to a dinner or a movie. Maybe you want to hang out in a large group. You need to figure out your feelings & talk to them.
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