my boyfriend has been locked up and he had just got out the other week. hes on house arrest for a month && probation for 3. part of his probation is to not have contact with me at all. but the other day we hung out secretly && we had sex. now we think i may be pregnant. im going to take a test/ my first question is IF IM PREGNANT CAN HE GET IN TROUBLE? CAN HE GET LOCKED UP AGAIN? IF SO WHAT WOULD HAPPEN? and my other question is HOW SOON SHOULD I TAKE THE PREGNANCY TEST? we did it on friday the 23rd. my period starts on the 12th/13th every month. any advice you can give me would be great. please help. i dont want to get him locked up if i am pregnant and if i do keep it. please help.
He SHOULD get locked up. I can't believe anyone is keeping you away from him for fun. They are likely keeping you apart for your safety. Stay away from him. Please.
You will get him in more trouble, and will likely end up hurt.
The earliest you can take a home pregnancy test is three days after your missed period. So, if your period does not come on the 13th, you may take a test on the 17th. If you take a test before then the results will not be accurate.
karenR answered Monday November 26 2007, 9:40 am: Yes. If he isn't supposed to be seeing you, he violated probation and would probably be sent back to jail. This is IF he is court ordered not to see you. If it is a parents don't want you seeing him thing he may not go.
Lying about it would do no good since they could do DNA tests to find out who the father is. You are underage so parents would probably allow this.
If you miss your period take a test. That simple.
Now, if he isn't allowed to see you, you need to stay away. If you don't want him locked up, don't help him to break probation. He will not be let out on probation again if he breaks the rules.
Depending on what he is doing time for, he could even get a longer sentence. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Monday November 26 2007, 1:48 am: it is a possibility that he would be locked up again. it just depends on what he was locked up for before, and why he isn't allowed to see you on probation. most likely, he WILL be locked up. but who's gonna prove that you DID see him and that the baby is his ? you could say you never saw him and the baby is someone elses. you have to wait a week after your first missed period in order to take your pregnancy test. remember, not all pregnancy tests are right for everyone. some brands may not be as acurate as others. [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
Solcito answered Monday November 26 2007, 12:21 am: The best way to determine when you should take a pregnancy test is just to look on the box. It will have instructions including when to take the test. If it turns out you are pregnant, I don't think it would have any effect on his legal standing. The safest bet in the instance that you are pregnant is to wait until he is off probation to let people know about it. You won't really start showing until about four months anyway. Once he's off, it's done. They won't put him back on probation once he's off, and you being pregnant shouldn't be a legal issue once he's off probation. I hope everything works out for you. Try to learn from your mistakes. [ Solcito's advice column | Ask Solcito A Question ]
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