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confusion
i'm 16/f and i met this kid named greg whos also 16. we've hungout before and i like him, and want to hopefully go out with him, but the thing is, im not sure if he likes me. when we hungout once, he was talking like all up in my face and really close, and he always makes contact with me but i dont know it could be a natural thing. and on aol he always instant messages me first, and hes really nice and i think we have alot in common. Now, the big problem: I think he likes this girl named stephanie. actually im pretty sure he does.
[ i dont want to ask him anything about stephanie, because im not going to assume, so lets just ignore that part. ]
My question(s): what should i do? what should i say to him? How can i talk to him?
Basically just tell me what i should do in this situation, and how to talk to him. Im not a shy person at all but this is just so hard for me
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you can talk to him in person, or on aol. I'd do aol .... but that's just me. just talk to him casually and if you hung out yesterday or someday then be like "I had a great time on (name of day)." and see what he says. Then be like "we should hang out again." and see what he says. If he says "oh yeah definitally" then thats a good sign. But if he goes like "sure" then he thinks you're a friend. Then somehow say something like "I really like you" maybe blend that into another sentence.. because if you just straight out say it, well its going to be akward. So somehow blend it into another sentense. Like "(name of the day) was so much fun, I'm starting to think this will be a good relationship"
If you talk to him in person, look at his body language. If he leans in towards you (good sign) or if he is having his arms crossed (just friends)
Flirt!! do a lot of flirting so he will see that you're interested. Let him make the decision who is the better pick for a girlfriend.
Most guys love it when a girl plays hard to get. I read in a magazine- guys don't like it when a girl is aggressive and doesn't play hard to get. Then its no fun for the guy and they will find another girl. So play hard to get to get his attention.
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
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Well you need to talk to him about it before he starts REALLY liking the other girl, Stephanie.
So I would just tell him on AOL, so it wont make you uncomfortable. Just tell him, I really enjoyed hanging out with you, I am really starting to like you, and then see what he says, if he says "I like you too" then your good to go, and start talking about hanging out more and maybe in the future becoming more than friends.
But if he changes the subject or just says something completly stupid like "cool" then its best to stay friends and move on. :]
hope I helped
love Ashleigh
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