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I love him* but i cant be with him!!
i've been going out with this guy (we're both 14) for the past three months and we recently broke up cuz my mom was absolutely against it...but the thing is its just been a few days since we broke up and already i'm missing him soooo much. everytime i see him in school i catch him looking at me and my friends say that behind my back he cant take my eyes off of me!!! none of us wanted to break up and i miss everything i used to do with him...you know all the holding hands, kissing and hugging stuff...and im just so sad now...i know we cant be in a proper relationship because my mom is really unnecesarily strict about these things...she's forbidden me from TALKINg to him...but i love him so much oh god and i know he loves me too...i know there isnt anyway we can be together unless we do what my friend and HER bf were doing which is basically that they managed to stay apart a whole month and then got together for one day every month...it worked for them but im really scared of my mom now and no matter how much i tell her i love him she wont listen to me...so do you all think that would work? it sounds kinda kinky to me and i dont think he would agree because he's said this before that he wants all of me and not just bits and parts...but im so scared right now and i also love him so much!!! I know there's no way out of this but i guess i just need some reassurance...please help me!!
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Well, your mom doesn't like it because of your age. You are only 14.
If you guys really love each other, then you will wait for each other for the time to be right.
I know you miss each other now and what not, but wouldn't it be easier to think how this situation won't last forever?
I know a couple years SEEMS like forever, but by then your mom will probably be more relaxed about the whole idea.
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hello honey,
this guy sounds like a great guy and all but your only 14. i know you've proabably heard that a lot before but its the truth and i would give the same advice to a couple who was 17 or 18. don't rush it. time can be on your side or against you. be patient take it slow explain to the guy how much you like him and let him know you want to take it slow and then do just that. don't talk about love because that is whats getting your mom so angry. she is thinking to herself "O my god. my child is 14 and she thinks she loves this kid!"
so be patient and be friends become best friends and even better bf and gf.
good luck honey.
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