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Best Friend
15/f
Sorry this is a little long.
I'm kinda wondering whether I am bisexual or not so I guess right now I'm rather sensetive to different situations, so I really want someone elses opinion on this.
My friend Julie and I have gotten really close this past couple of months. We weren't amazing friends last year but since school started in September we have talked alot more and hung out alot more.
In the morning we al hang out by our lockers and stand in a circle kind of. Usually i am across from Julie and lately I have noticedd her staring at me. I'm not really sure how to react to this and usually end up making some odd face and turning away. I can't tell if it's a stare that you give someone you like or just a stare.
Help? I don't really know if she lies me or if thats just me being extra sensetive to everything.
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There could be many reasons why she may be looking at you. Not all of them have to do with sexual attraction. I know you know that already but just emphasizing it.
It's important that you do NOTHING for now at least. Why? if you talk to her about this and she's not bisexual you'll have problems. She might freak-out and tell everyone you are. If that happened people could bash you.
Also, at your age it's too early to know if you yourself are genuinely bisexual. Wait and see if you continue having feelings for both sexes or are just curious about her alone. Don't tell any friends or acquaintances you are struggling with this until you KNOW for sure.
If you see her staring again just look at her and ask "do I have something weird on me?" If she says no ask her if she is "admiring your outfit" or "I noticed you looking at me what's wrong?" or ask "What are you thinking about? The expression on your face really changed when looked at me just now."
Let her be the one to show/tell you that she's thinking of you as more than a friend here. Odds are that if she is she's too confused and scared to tell you. See what develops as you don't want to lose a close friendship over this if neither of you are gay/bisexual.
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