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Does that mean my guy friend seriously dropped the feelings
As, from the beginning i know he wanted to be bf/gf but i just didnt have that chemistry for him so he said im just treating you as my sister and a freind also. He calls me everyday and lately i had some problems at work and he would
show his concern and yesterday he said ''i've been thinking about you the whole day.'' ''I'm wondering how were things at work and what did your manager say regards to your problem?''
There was some guy i dont know who added to my msn and i asked him do you know that guy who added me? He said, no i don't i won't give out your email address to anyone without ur permission but you should be careful dont let him hack your account just block him if you dont know him. Why don't you just give me his email so i can tell him to stop hacking you. He said can you delete him? I said no,I think your going over board here i might know him. I'll find out first if I don't then I'll delete him. So, I asked him do you really meant to be my brother? I told him straight from the heart that when you said you're willing to be my brother I was pleased and felt thankful to have someone that treats me like a real sister. I always wanted my own biological brother to treat me like his sister although he would beat up a kid to protect me when i was being picked on from others at school and deep down knowing he loves me but he never nice to me. Anyway, ''I'm sorry to say that I wasn't sure why you came in my life.''One thing for sure I know God let us to be friends cuz i pray for whatever the outcome would be plan by God's hand and it seems like God has given another brother to me.'' He said ''You have clearly put where we stand but since then it was hard for me to put it all down but to see you as my sister and a friend
i was a little unhappy at first but its all ok now. I i think you already know or i have shown out to you already.'' ''i had the like feeling from the beginning that is why i kept you as a friend because i didn't want to lose you as a friend and to be my sister.'' ''i had put all feeling down and just put the mean that you are my sister don't misunderstand.'''' Of course i want to be your real brother and replace your brother that does not treat you good i would not do that to my sister i would be there for you anytime you need me but rather you accept me to be your real brother.'' So, after that we changed the topic and he said Its almost x-mas and he would buy me a gift to show just to show a friendly guster as friends. I said, then I must return you a gift too but he stated clearly no i know it makes you feel bad but I have my reason i need to do this I need to show you my apprecitaion that God has given me a good sister. Anyway, he continue to ask for the hangout like from the start of our conversaion. You want to meet tomorrow? I was tired and not in a mood and he was kind of pushing me for a hangout and said ''no i just want to help you to open more up like the first day i met you were really shy.'' ''I would feel happy if I see you talk more.'' ''We should talk on the phone everyday.'' Well, somehow i kind of prospone our hangout and said there would be more time to get together later on when i quit my job and I know he woulnd't hang up the phone until I say so and he respect my way.
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it sounds like he still has feelings for you, but he doesnt mention them because he knows you don't have them for him, well. at least it doesnt sound it. and i think he truely loves you like a sister but maybe a little more and it's just going to take some time to get all of the "more than a sister feelings gone. but, if you still have feelings for him tell him before he slips away. but, if you don't. then just keep going as you are.
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Ermm not being rude but i really think you need to rearrange what you wrote because like the comment below me its unclear to see what your'e on about...just trying to help you get an answer :-)
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