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What am i supposed to do?
Okay I really liked this guy for a while. I play basktball with his sister and helped coached his brothers team. This was all last year. We flirted, and I was shure he had to like me some because one time we were talking and his sister asked him if they could leave and he kept stalling i think so he could talk to me longer. He looks at me alot too. So i left him a comment on myspace but i got nothing back. So i looked and all the other people that left him comments hed never writen them back either. By now I really liked him it waslike after are talkes i felt like i could fly. Eventually i was convencd that he didnt like me. So i talked my friend into asking his sister if he liked me. He said as a friend...well all of this happening. I tried to get over it I really grown to like him. Im okay know i geuss. I relapsed a few times when i saw him.But i bounced back.
Well....a year later basketball is starting back, and hes comeing back around. Its weird we dont talk at all. I just want to be friends with him agin without falling for him agin.
What do I do??
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I think that it's a good idea if you start conversations with him to get the two of you talking again, just not all the time or too often. Considering you don't want to fall for him again, so you don't want to give him any signals that you want to be more than friends, with him. If you find yourself thinking about him a lot, focus your mind on your priorities or another guy, something else that is going on, etc. I'm sure things will work out, just as long as you don't focus too much on him.
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I think that you should try to talk to him, just a little bit. Not nearly as much as you used to. It's a year later, maybe you've changed. Maybe he's changed. Maybe he'll be attracted to you or he'll spark a new interest in you.
So talk to him a little, but don't crowd him whatsoever. Go about doing your thing, but make sure he can see you. Maybe he'll be intruiged by you, remember you, and want to talk to you. Make him come to you.
This will also cause you less pain than if you were always talking to him. If you don't as much, you can't possibly feel as strongly as you did last year.
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