(sorry if its long)
heyy guys,
well I have a boyfriend who I love SOOOOOO much!!! and he literally means the world to me, and he feels the same way about me, he says were gonna get married and have wonderful children, and that just puts joy in my heart but anyway for some reason these past couple of days he's been acting weird, like he looks pissed at the world, and when I told him what's wrong he goes nothing stressed with school and stuff. and trust me he tells me everything that's wrong, but for some reason when he told about being stressed with school and work, I get upset because I feel like he maybe doesn't have time for a girlfriend, which upsets me very much, all my friends tell me its ok, he just is stressed with this. but honeslty guys (from your opnion) do u think he'll break up with me cause of this? oh yah and he tells me he's gonna visit me (cause I'm sick) and then he tells me I'm coming over and then he says I'm not gonna make it tonight, he pretty much bailed on me 4 days already, and I'm sorry if you guys think im crazy and stuff, but I also feel like he doesn't care for me anymore, but he calls me and says hey baby, I miss and I love you, but I don't know I'm just so confused, what's wrong with him? what's wrong with me? why doesn't he come visit when I'm ill, and I think he makes up excuses, I'm so confused just please help me guys, I really need your opnion, and did you feel like that with your girlfriend? and he says he feels bad and stuff, well I started crying and so did he cause he felt bad, and it made me feel so terrible making me accuse him of not caring for me anymore (well I said to myself not him) but I don't know just so confused!
pleasee helpp
thanksss soooo much!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Professor_Kaos answered Sunday November 18 2007, 10:02 am: Perhaps it is just what he says. But his bailing and distancing himself does sound like he has someone else. When a person seems like they are being distant for days on end, normally it is because they are thinking of someone else. The phone calls seem almost like it is his guilt kicking in and also as a way to cover his tracks. What is he so busy with that he wasn't with before? If he needs to study, he can study at your place. Normally our gut instincts are correct. But it isnt really too normal for a guy to be to busy for a girlfriend. Nobody comes before the girlfriend in most situations. Maybe family, but if it was a family thing, you'd be invited I'd guess. [ Professor_Kaos's advice column | Ask Professor_Kaos A Question ]
cricketsayrawr answered Saturday November 17 2007, 5:44 pm: Well....uh....i really hate to break this to you, but....it sounds like hes 2 timing you. cause he dosent tell you anything anymore, and he always says he " cant make it tonite" im sorry, and you may get mad, but thats what it sounds like to me. [ cricketsayrawr's advice column | Ask cricketsayrawr A Question ]
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