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Individuality
How can I be more of an individual.
I am sick of being like everyone else and doing what everyone else is doing all the time.
What sort of things can I wear so I can have more of an individual style? What accessories could I use?
Do I need to find new interests?
Thanks everyone who can help.xx
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I fit in at school and where the clothes everybody else is wearing, but people know i'm shy but i have this confident look to my eye and a very nice confident walk, so when the 'popular' girls walk past me they usually glare and feel intimated b/c most guys like how i dont throw myself at them but am confident and respect myself. Literally 'everyone' at our school does soccer and dance, i swear that i'm the only one in the whole freakin school that has a passion for equestrian sompeting. Sometimes i fell left out in school or outside conversations because everybody is talking about their upcoming games or recitails. Get gets annoying, but at the same time i'm unique and such an indiviual that a lot of people secretly envy me. A lot of the people at school are kinda intimated from me or skittish because i'm the only pretty girl or dresses nice, but doesnt follow the crowd when it comes to everything else, i dont have a myspace, i dont go to games or anything, but i do want to be a plastic surgeon so most people just dont like me. But my best advice for you is to start a new sport or activity like cricket that nobody else does, so your known as the girl who does___ not just another team player. Good Luck!
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I'm prolly the Queen of Standing out and being weird! I don't even try to thats the thing. I just like awkard stuff. Maybe you should just really be you. I mean there has to be something that you like alot and maybe u can start off with that. See me Im infatuated w/ serial killers and other random history things. I'm in to rock music but i still love elvis.. just kinda see what all you like and piece them all together. Personally since your a girl.. well first question do u like eyeshadows? I personally <3 them! I wear like bright green w/ hot pink or red n black or black and blue.. differnt stuff all the time. like do it and match to some funky clothes that fit your personality. like say you like bubbles.. get a bubble shirt .. wear blue white black eyeshadow and and get some funky highlights.. um... and get some crazy ass shoes! do differnt stuff till you find your crazy self!
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It takes time to find your individual style. You do what you want to do and not do what other people do. Make your own decisions and don't let anyone tell you what to do. If you don't want to wear or do something say no. Wear what you feel like and don't get influenced. That's all there is to it. If you let others depend on what you want then your not standing up for yourself. In order to start being your own person, you have to make your own decisions. And go from there. Hope I helped.
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