Question Posted Thursday November 15 2007, 6:53 pm
I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and I am attracted to this other guy. I've slept with this other guy 3 times, and I want to tell my boyfriend that I've been cheating on him. I feel like I need to tell him. OH, and also, I have a bachelorette party for my cousin in 2 weeks, and I'm going for a Mexican theme, since she's Mexican. I want to make some enchilladas for the event, and I need a good recipe! Thanks!
I don't want to give you the advice to make the other guy your boyfriend. It would be a shame for you two to get officially involved and then have you cheat on him too. Perhaps you need to be single for a while and decide what it is you like in a guy before you continue on with this cycle. The guys, neither of them deserve it. Take some time to decide what you want before hurting anyone else, including yourself.
I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I need a recipe. Sorry, I can't help you with the recipe. The cheating part was so disturbing and the non-chelant way of mentioning it in the same breath as needing a recipe for a party... that is very concerning for self destructive behavior. It is coming across whether you mean it to or not as it doesn't bother you you have cheated, you just wanted to let everyone know. I definitely think you should break up with the first guy. He deserves better. Then you should back off for a while until you decide what you want. [ familyfirst's advice column | Ask familyfirst A Question ]
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