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my friend and i
i like my best friend. i grew up with him and he was my best friend for the last 3 years. I’ve never had a boyfriend (bf) but I told him I liked him and he said he liked me then everything just stopped for 2 weeks i dono why and we did nothing about it and for a week of that i was in dead hate with him id do anything to piss him off but now were really close again (cursing him out to telling him I love him-in a friend way). i love him but I treat him like my other best friends. They think that’s wrong. I can say anything to him and there is only 2 people in my life that I can him and my friend that liked him now hates him as of yesterday. Im just very comfortable around him ill tell him anything. He knows im depressed, and struggling he is there for me. He made it so much better and makes me worry a lot less about it. I love being around him. We used to talk about our crushes of other people and us, but now when it comes to talking about crushing or love we smile and end up flirting like little kids in a way I love it lol. everyone says im gothic and i hate that more than anything but hes fine with my ''gothic''clothes and hxc music scares him but he loves it somehow thats the only reason i can be who i am. before i tried to change myself for the last guy and it was a very big mistake and he remembers it.
I don’t know If Im making a big deal about this or what it’s tearing me up. This is the only thing I can’t talk to him about anymore and we used to. I tried but changed the subject after first word… what should I do? I am totally lost.. 13 but 14 next month femallee hes in 3 months but today was the best day of my life :) with my friends. last time i didnt want to date him or anything because i didnt wana loose my best friend
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Dating friends is tricky. If you both care about each other- it's probably worth giving a shot. Plus, since you've known each other so long, you'll realize soon enough if you love each other like brother/sister, or something more. And the relationship can end without you two hating each other. If you really like this guy it's probably worth a shot. Next time you're together, talk about how much you care about him, how happy he makes you, ec. Basically everything you just typed to me, tell him- You don't have to change yourself around him, you can tell him everything... all good stuff.
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