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my bff and i are messing up again
Me and my 2 best friends (girls) like my other best friend (guy) i grew up with him and he was my best friend for the last 3 years. I’ve never had a boyfriend (bf) but I told him I liked him and he said he liked me then everything just stopped for 2 weeks i dono why and we did nothing about it and for a week of that i was in dead hate with him id do anything to piss him off but now were really close again (cursing him out to telling him I love him(in a friend way).
i love him but I treat him like my other best friends. They think that’s wrong. I can say anything to him and there is only 2 people in my life that I can him and my friend that likes him. Im just very comfortable around him ill tell him anything. He knows I cut and all, depressed, and struggling he is there for me through it. He made it so much better and makes me worry a lot less about it. I love being around him. We used to talk about our crushes of other people and us, but now when it comes to talking about crushing or love we smile and end up flirting like little kids in a way I love it lol. i cant show sad emotion very well i just had to put that idk why. O and my gothic clothes and hxc music scares him but he loves it somehow.
I don’t know If Im making a big deal about this or what it’s tearing me up. This is the only thing I can’t talk to him about. I tried once but changed the subject after first word… what should I do? I am totally lost.. 13 but 14 next month female : ) hes in 3 months
but today was the best day of my life :) with my friends.
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Hey. No offence to the person below me but I don't think you're too young to have "boy problems." Well, you sort of made it unclear, atleast for me to understand if you like him or not. If you do, you should deffinately make a move becuase it sounds to me as if he's either not going to, or is unsure about your feelings for him. I know how you feel if you don't like him though. Actually, this question describes my life to a T. What with the cutting and stuff. I know how you feel about how having him around keeps you less tence and you have less of a desire to do it. That sounds just like me. If you don't like him that way, I would just keep things on a friendly level. I mean it's deffinately okay to flirt, but you wouldn't want to do it so much that he thinks you like him and makes a move on you when you don't want to. Basically, if you like him, go for it. If you don't, then leave things the way that they are.
And for the cutting, ferserious, hide your razor or throw it away, and get and elastic band or hair alastic. When you feel like cutting, snap the fuck out of yourself. You don't bleed from it and the marks last for all of a minute. I know, believe me I know how lame it is to get lecures on it, it sucks. I know how much it helps, but believe me, I'm there, too. But we, me and you, really have to try and stop. The elasric works well.
Good luck, and I hope I helped though I'm pretty sure this was of no help to you lol.
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sweetie you're young. no boy problems, k?
just keep him as a bff because that's always the best way to go if you're not sure. i'm not saying anything for sure, but some best friend relationships that go into an actual relationship end up to where they hate eachother. just keep him because no matter what happens, he'll be there for you and you both know that you like eachother. if you two really are right for eachother, it'll happen but in the future...like....high school maybe. but don't get all riled up about it.
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