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Boyfriend conflict.
ok so i have a boyfriend problem. (he just turned 19 and i'm 15 going on 16 in february.)(that's not the problem though) so anyway, he tries to control me too much. we threaten to break up with each other but we never really do. He has a court date in 2 days for "trespassing" into my house. (It was behind my dad's back and my dad caught him in my room). i really don't want to break up with him, but he said that if i say no to him one more time about something, he'll smash my head into the sidewalk. I don't know what to do...i say no to him when he asks me to not talk to any of my guys friends, not to see my friends on the weekend, or to call him twice a day, everyday. i just don't want to and i think i should get my freedom...
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Listen you need to talk to your dad and get a retraining order on him and get him for threating you because how dare him even ever think about hitting you or any women in that matter he must be a wimp. get protection from him by telling your dad and going to the police ok ive delt with people before they are crazy just get help ok.
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woah this guy's gotta go.
just like they said below me: dump him over the phone and alert the police of his threats.. its not okay at all
you shouldnt see him ever again, trust me, no one deserves that for whatever reason
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Dump him, over the phone, with a witness present.
He is violent. He made a threat. That is NOT OKAY in all caps.
You should get your freedom, and you shouldn't have to fear bodily harm. Please make sure to protect yourself. If he makes more threats, please make sure you have a witness and keep the police involved.
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uhm, he'll "smash your head!?" oh wow.
deffinately break up with him.
you might want to also let an adult know about the threats he makes to you, it's abuse.
and God only knows what could happen if you piss him off too much.
this is insane, and what he's doing is verbal abuse, and you can deffinately take him to court for it, it's threat and possible attempted murder, if the court sees it that way.
you deffinately need to break up with him, as soon as you can. today infact. it's not okay, he's not safe. i agree with the person below..
are you crazy!? he's BAD NEWS. please be smart and break up with him TODDAY.
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Are you crazy? This person is BAD NEWS.
You need to end it now and never see him again. It's not normal to threaten/hurt/control your girlfriend.
I can see he has you right where he wants you. "I really don't want to break up with him" - ANYONE in your position would.
End it before he does something else.
YOU should control yourself. Not him.
and you are perfectly right - you should get your freeedom. You are a 15 year old girl.
Please do the right thing.
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Ok what I think you should do is break up with him asap..I know its gonna be hard but its gonna be hard on you & your fam. Once he hurts you ..he's threating you and someday he's gonna get realy upset and do what he says so you sould get out of there now and if he keeps threating you put a restraining order on him because this can turn into a huge problem..soo goodluck & be safe
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