there is this group of people that i sit with at lunch. one, "s", is the one i talk to because no one else talks to us. i thought i was frends with "b and j". "b" is all about including everyone. so the rest of the table are b and js frends that im not rlly frends with and they are always going out and not inviting me and s. and it feels terrible because we are the only ones.i went to the mall with "b and j" and some other people that dont sit at our table. i did a play with "b and j" as well. but then i also have these random frends who invite me to go places with them but i dont even sit with them. i dont really know anyone at this new high school, but i want to get invited out with these girls. they live 45 minutes away but my mom is willing to drive!
what should i do??
(sorry its long)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? falalalakimmy answered Sunday November 11 2007, 10:39 pm: Im really outspoken and speak whats on my mind alot like if someones bothering me ill be like "Please....can you just leave me alone!" So if i were you i would just hint to them. Don't tell them: cuz then they'll look down on you. Or you'll look desperate. Slowly lure them into your trap. Pay attention to what they like, then ask them a question about it. But don't be a stalker or change yourself for them, in that case, their just not worth it. So, talk to them more, include "s" in this plan too. Also, its not a terrible thing to have other friends that invite you places besides these chicks, don't get greedy! Lol, kidding. But if this scheme doesnt work, havent you ever thought of making new friends (lightbulb ON!)
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