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player?
16/f
okay im not sure if this guy is playing me or not..
he was my boyfriend for 6 months and people made up rumors that i was cheating on him, when i wasnt, this girl told him that and she liked him and now there going out. (the girl is my cousin)
this guy has been talking to me and saying stuff everynight to me since they have been going out about how he miss's me and wishes we were together and he talks about how he miss's sex and shit because my cousin is i guess prude..
last night me and my ex were at a party and we only went to 2nd someone walked in.. and hes scarred someone will tell his girlfriend(my cousin)
he asked me if i miss him and i said of course and he said he missed me to but then he said "dont worry soon it will happen" but that same night his gf left him a comment and it said how much she loves him and he responded saying i love you more than anything and then the next day(today) he is still saying he wants me back..
so i have a couple of questions.
1. should i tell my cousin hes cheating on her? ( even though its with me, i would want to know if someone was cheation on me, and i really do feel bad even though she is the reason why im not with my ex)
2. do you think this guy is playing me?
3. is it bad for me to still love him and want to be with him even though (he mights?) be playing me?
i just need some advice, or something.
thanks in advance.
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I think you and your cousin would both be better off without that guy. He dates you, and then decides to date your cousin? He has had sex with you and wants to have sex with your cousin? Relatives shouldn't even be that close. I say you get over him, find someone better that will not treat you like a booty call or end up hurting your cousin.
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1.) Telling her would be the right thing to do. It's not her fault your ex isn't with you. He is a scum bag, that is why he isn't with you.
2.) Of course he is playing you. He has basically told you that he misses sex. You put out, even though he has a girlfriend. Why wouldn't he play you if he can have you both at once?
3.) It isn't wrong for you to still have feelings for him. What is bad is if you let those feelings give him permission to play you, disrespect you, ruin your relationship with your cousin and basically treat you like shit.
There is no 'might'. He is playing with you and your cousin. You know it. She may even know it. Both of your just don't want to know it.
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1) Absolutely, your cousin has a right to know. Even though it's going to be hard to tell her, especially when it's you, it really is for the best. As you stated, you would want to know (as I would too) if you were being cheated on, so I think she has the same right.
2) Unfortunately, I do think he is. Honestly, I think he's only using you for sex. And you deserve better than that.
3) I think it's a bad situation all the way around, if you want to know the truth. Really, what do you love about him? He cheats on his girlfriends, he says that he misses the "sex," I mean, what do you see in this guy? I understand there's probably more to it than that, but you deserve better than that and so does you cousin.
I do wish you the best of luck, and please tell you cousin. She has a right to know.
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Hiya Darl,
Well firstly i strongly recommend you to tell your cousin. because it is breaking up your friendship. And also it's not right to cheat on someone i would definetely want to know if someone was cheating on me.
I'm not sure if he is playing you but if he is playing on your cousin. who knows how many girls hes playing with.
It's not bad to love him because you can't help who you fall in love with, ecspecially when you had something before.
Mandy
xxx
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