Question Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 8:19 pm
I know he wants a gf but I told him i'm only settle down for a friendship because i dont have that chemistry for him. We hungout at the mall and went into a store and he wanted to buy me something but i said no you dont have to. I feel bad but he said no its not bad i just want to buy you something like a friend would buy a gift to a friend. I got confused whether he wants to buy me something shows he cheerish our friendhship or he is trying to get me while we're at a friend's stage. I know that he concern about other guy's comment on my facebook like he asked me who is that guy who comment you on facebook? Where you met him?
I can't believe he called you yo make up girl
that is rude of him and he actually message that guy and said to him that he is a friend of mine and currently a brother too can't stand him calling me make up girl and said to him do not call her make up cuz she has a name. Dose that mean my guy friend havent dropped that feeling down and planning to persue on?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? ammo answered Thursday November 8 2007, 6:04 pm: One thing to understand about guys is that it's hard for them to change - period. It is pretty much for anyone really but telling a guy who likes you to stop feeling that way about you is not an easy thing to do. It will happen but it will take time. Some will just move on even though they may still have lingering feelings still there for you - it happens and it's all a part of life, he will get over it.
I've had friends buy me things all the time even though we're just friends (I liked her and she only wanted to be friends and when we were hanging out one day she brought me a top as a gift just because she said it would look good on me). She did it just as a friendly gesture and that's it so he may have pretty much done the same. The whole thing about facebook and that message you got could just be down to him being jealous or he really did find it offensive, what that guy had referred to you as. Personally I think he may have slightly overstepped by sending that message to this other guy, if anyone should have said somehting about it, it should have been you if you found it offensive or didn't like it.
He may still obviously have feelings for you but you will just need to give him time to get over them and to move on. The only thing however that makes me think I could be wrong is how he said he was your friend and like your brother... did he mean that or was he just saying that. If he meant it then it may just be nothing but him being overly protective. :) [ ammo's advice column | Ask ammo A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Thursday November 8 2007, 5:58 pm: In my opinion, he still likes you as mare than a friend and was trying to buy you something, so that it might make you want to be more than friends with him. And he got aggravated about the comments the other guy put on your Facebook, because he still has feelings for you. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
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