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alright, well im not trying to be cocky, like this is really happening and i dont know what to do..
within 1 month after i broke up with my boyfriend 5 guys asked me out.. and the one guy i like.. doesnt like me.. and i turned down the other guys but one of them was one of my best friends and i had no idea he liked me like that and i felt bad turning him down and now he acts so diffrent like its really akward to be around him and i miss hanging out with him and stuff, i mean he was one of my best friends and i dont know how to make it less akward any ideas?
and my other problem is 1 of the guys i turned down is i guess you can say "really popular" at my school and he got like pissed off when i said no and just walking through the halls is horiable he always gives me dirty looks and he talks about me and how much of a "bitch" or "slut" i am, to his friends who were once my friends and i think hes making up shit about me to my friends because some of them act diffrent around me, and i have one class with him and its really bad like sometimes i will just skip that class so i wont have to see him, because he talks about me when im sitting right there he'll do it just loud enough so i hear him and hes just a prick i guess but idk what to do about it? like what can i say or do to get him to leave me alone and get over it?
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The guy who is giving you shit needs to be disciplined, tell your year advisor or a teacher. Just ignore him he'll eventually get sick of it, don't pay him any attention. Your friends should be able to know you well enough that if they hear any stories that they are not true and they should be able to confront you about them. As long as you and the people closet to you know your not a bitch or a slut thats whats important.
As for your best friend, you need to talk to him. Being that he is your best friend you should be able to be honest and open with him. Express how your feeling and get him to open up and express his too.
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well shit talkers are stupid, no joke. honestly, any one who believes rumors that a guy like that is spreading are truly idiots because they don't even know you. you need to show him that you don't really care when you walk through the halls, even though you might. when he looks at you, give him a dirty look back or roll your eyes (don't you love drama?)
as for your best friend, talk to him about it. tell him pretty much what you posted on here. let him know it's nothing personal that you turned him down, you just don't see him as anything more than a best friend.
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