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what should we talk about? should i hug him? how do i flirt?
i REALLYY REALLYYY like this guy, and we are good friends.. i mean we talk alot and stuff
he likes this other girl though. i dont know if he still does but yeah
and like i wanna try to flirt with him, i have been on all the websites and stuff but they dont tell me sepcificly what to say! and thats what i need
also whenever we talk to eachother on AIM the conversations are SOOOOO awkward. its always like.. hey, hey, whats up? nm u? nm. cool yeah. and then idk what to sayy!!!!!!!! i need some ideas also i cant rele make jokes cause it seems like online he takes things seriouslyy
but in person he is really CRRRAAZZYYY. And its still kinda awkward in person he always comes up to me and we say hi and stuff but then we are just starring at eachother like NOW WHAT!??!?! ugh i need to know what to sayyy!!
also i really wanna give him a hug, but i feel like ( even though we are friends ) it would be feel awkward for himm =[
i dont know what to doooo
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This should help you out for everything else, but the hug. And as far as the hug goes, as soon as you see him, just go right up and hug him. That's what I do with a guy, whether I like him or not. I don't think it would make it feel awkward at all, I think you may be over-thinking the situation. It's only a hug, not a kiss or something more serious. Think about it this way, you hug your family members, you hug your friends who are girls, so why not your guy friends? I hope that made it sounds easier. =)
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i think you're shy and you need to get over that. don't do everything based on what he would think or like or whatever, just go along with it. be yourself, don't try to impress him because it always works best.
and as for flirting, DON'T TRY TOO HARD. there's not really anything specific to say, it just comes along.
i can give you examples...
if you guys are together or whatever, when he walks away, hide something of his and pretend like you didn't take it and when he sees you have it, make him chase you for it, or something.
don't worry too much about whether you need to flirt, just act like yourself.
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