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Bff ?


Question Posted Saturday November 3 2007, 4:44 pm

Okkay so me and my bff have been friends since 3rd grade, we are now in 10th grade.

Okaay, lately, my bff has been pissing me off.
There is this new girl and my bff is always around her, and when im around and the new girl is around, she doesnt even acknowledge me.

Me and my bff always go to our school things called young life, and we still do go with each other, but now my bff brings the new girl too, and she leaves me out & doesnt talk to me all night.

Friday my bff invited me to go to a tailgating party with her, which would be today.
Well, I told my bff to call me, i told her this on myspace, and she said she would call me when she got out the shower. I havent gotten a call.

I have the new girl as a friend on myspace and she posted a bulliten saying that she was with my bff at a place. But then I realized that they were going to the tailgating party after, adn My bff still hasnt called.

Im about to say the hell with it because im sick of my bff's stupid shit, about leaving me out.

Any advice before I do?


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elizabethx2 answered Sunday November 4 2007, 8:53 pm:
this is a had one i have been put in this same spot =[ and yeah it hurt my feelings and and made me sad but befor you get into a big fight just tell her be like (what ever her name is ) that she means alot to you and becaus you both have been friends for a VERY long time you dont want to loos her now and tell her JUST how you feel dont leve ANYTHING OUT but say it face to face trust me on this one but everything you say make sure its all in a NICE way and if after all that does not work them maybe it is time you let her go and move on to new people becaus no one likes geting there feeling hurt.
hope i helped
let me no how every thing works out
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superstarblue89 answered Saturday November 3 2007, 9:12 pm:
you need to talk to here and tell her how you feel...just leaving her won't make anything better...it can only make a situation worse...tell her whats going on and what you think a good solution is and then work something out...I have had the same two best friends since the 1st grade and I'm a senior and we are all getting ready to go to college. One of them I see all the time, the other runs cross country and hardly talks to the two of us anymore and only hangs out with the cross country people...we talked to her about it and everything is fine...friendships that you've had for a long time just seem to work the kinks out faster...but communication is key.

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cheerxleader14 answered Saturday November 3 2007, 8:55 pm:
talk to her before you do. tell her how you feel.

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